It's a good thing we're not superstitious, or we might have taken the 571 lightning strikes in the neighboring Tahoe National Forest as an ominous sign. Just as we turned out the lights for sleep last Sunday night, I noticed a flash of light in the sky. I mentioned it to Roger, and we just dismissed it. Then, there was another flash, and then another. Without exaggeration, the sky lit up with lightning flashes ALL NIGHT LONG. It was unbelievable. Some of the lightning lit the room so brightly, we could see the flash through our closed eyes. I got out of bed and looked out through our slider and saw that the sky above us was clear and filled with stars. I couldn't believe it, but it was true. The thunderstorms were south and east of us, but still we could see the endless flashes of light. It was only in the very early morning that the clouds moved in close enough to actually rain a bit, and we could hear thunder.
Because we're not superstitious, we did hit the road Monday morning, and the sky was mostly blue with a few clouds here and there. None of them ominous at all. Of course that didn't stop whatever bit of rain was left to come down on us as we began the journey. It was a surprising start to the 450 mile trip south to see my mom in her new home.
The road south is long and boring. The speed limit is 70 mph, but everyone goes MUCH faster than that. If you're going 70, you're impeding the flow of traffic. We were behind a few of those drivers, and they're always the ones who are also afraid to pass the big trucks. It's quite a scene out there in the middle of the state, in the middle of nowhere. The aggressive drivers make it just as difficult and dangerous as the timid ones. It always occurs to me when we're out there on long trips that we're all hurtling past each other at speeds that would kill us all in a flash. We really have to rely on everyone's driving skills and attention to keep us from crashing. I'm not particularly fond of relying on other drivers to be safe and aware. And yet, they mostly are, and for that I am always grateful. When Roger is driving I like to watch the scenery. Sometimes it really is quite beautiful, if you can tune out the chaos of such speed. Those golden rolling hills of California are pretty awesome this time of the year.
We arrived at my mom's at 4:00. Seven hours on the road, 450 miles later. We drove fast, averaging 75 mph. Not bad. Jangled, exhausted, and alive! My mom loves her new home. It's in an assisted living facility in Thousand Oaks. She has wonderful new friends already, and she's happy and content. Worth the trip to see her smile!
reminds me of the dinner table scene in Annie Hall when the crazy Christopher Walken character is talking about steering into the headlights of an on-coming car!
ReplyDeleteAck - 7 hours in a car is too much for me. Yeah, I'll do it, but not happily. So glad you're mom is settle and satisfied with it all. What a victory for all concerned!
I just sleep mostly when Greg is driving.
ReplyDeleteStatistically, people are involved in lots of car accidents within a few miles of their homes, so, heck, you could just drive forever and be OK!
ReplyDeleteWonderful evocation of the terrors of long distance driving; as well as the electrical storming before you got going.
You know our recent brush with motor-related mortality; guess I'd rather fly if it's possible.
That lightening storm sounds incredible. I'd have been tempted to stay up and watch the light show.
ReplyDeleteSo glad you had a safe if harrowing journey and that your Mom has adjusted so well. That has to be a comfort to you.
Sounds like quite the light show! So happy to hear your mom is happy. I used to enjoy the 70 mph sections, but now with the texting and other distractions I am a white-knuckly traveler always fearful that someone's inattention will cause an accident.
ReplyDeleteYou really cranked it if you made it in 7 hours. I have stop at least a couple of times to stretch my legs, get a coffee, then a bio-break....
ReplyDeleteanyway glad the trip went well and Mom is happy. Very nice indeed.
Did you ever skip on the fence posts in your mind as they go by as a kid? I still do that sometimes.
ReplyDeleteSafe trip and Mom is happy. Life is good!
ReplyDeleteSpeed limit is 70???? I'd freeze in panic the moment I got on the roadway.
ReplyDeleteThe light show sounds beautiful. You didn't mention whether you could hear the thunder, so I'm assuming not. It always is more dramatic when it's just the sky lighting up like a flickering florescent light.
Good to hear that your mom likes her new place.
ReplyDeleteThose rolling golden hills look so familiar. Won't be all that long until it is time to put in many full days of such driving during the annual autumn migration. My greatest fear when traveling long distances is of stuff flying off of trucks as I have been hit by things a couple of time - the great frozen mud ball in Idaho that smashed in the hood of my van - and almost hitting a boat that flipped ff a trailer in front of me. I dislike trucks being anywhere around me and will pass them at any chance.
so glad your mom is happy and settled.
ReplyDeletevery long drive. i just do not do that any more. the speed and crazy drivers are too much for me.
I've always enjoyed driving trips, seeing the landscape around me. In fact, I miss not having a companion with whom to make such enjoyable drives now. Recall coming down out of mountain areas in toward L.A. years ago and saw 4 rainbows at once -- was so mesmerized, I neglected to take a picture, but I see it yet in my mind's eye.
ReplyDeleteAm always pleased to read that having loved ones settled in comfortably in housing providing special aids has been successfully accomplished for all.
It is a long route and I will probably ship my car through auto transporters :)
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