Sunday, April 21, 2013

OVERLOAD!


Lousy pic of the three coyotes.
Okay, can we all just say that last week was the week from hell?

With the Boston Marathon bombings and the crazy manhunt aftermath, the fertilizer plant explosion in Texas that should have gotten way more attention, and the Senate's blunder on gun control and background checks I think we tipped the scales to emotional overload in a very big way.

Roger and I rarely turn the TV on during the day. We are not news watchers, and prefer to get information from online resources and then later from Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert. The only way we can really endure the current events of the day is if it has been filtered through brilliant comic minds. This bit of wisdom comes from our old age: laughing is way better than crying.

But when the call came Friday morning that my mother had taken a pretty bad fall and was in an ER at a hospital 450 miles from us, that pretty much sent me over the edge into stressed-out land. It was really too much. Fortunately, my sister lives very close and was able to spend the TWELVE FREAKIN' HOURS in the ER with my mother, while they tried to determine if she had a fractured pelvic bone, and get her a room. It was finding an available hospital room that took the most time. But really it is an outrage that my poor mother with her aching body had to endure such a grueling experience, not to mention the incompetent staff who let her food sit for two hours, who tried to give her medication that she does not take, who munched on potato chips in my sister's face and told her to call the pharmacy herself to check on correct medications. WTF? They're definitely getting a letter from me. I can't wait to write it. (Late breaking news: My mom is okay, seriously bruised but nothing broken. She's going home from the hospital on Monday.)

With nerves jangled by such stuff, we also learned that one of our neighbors' friends spotted a MOUNTAIN LION on our road, when he was driving off their property around 8:00 pm one evening a week ago. That explains why the usually robust deer population here has been scarce for about two weeks.

Then Sunday morning Roger announced, "Hey Robin, come look! I see a coyote." So, I got up and ran to the front door to see THREE coyotes trotting up our driveway toward the road. THREE HUGE COYOTES! ISN'T THAT A PACK? (Click on the pic at the top.)

I go out every morning just after daylight and feed a little feral cat that our neighbors abandoned. I also rehang the bird feeders (which we have to take in every night because of the BEAR). I have always gone out knowing that I could have a close encounter with a coyote, but I never considered running into a pack. The other day I said to Roger, "If you hear me scream, it's because I'm having a close encounter with the mountain lion." Now, I swear, I could be screaming about so many things.

19 comments:

  1. Yeah, the Texas plant owner should be tried as an enemy combatant. He willfully did a LOT more damage than the Boston dickheads.

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  2. I am hoping that the news cannot get worse, at least in the near future. Not sure I could handle it. Bears, mt. lions, deer and coyotes are enough to worry about, let alone your mom. I am glad to know she didn't break anything.

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  3. That does sound like an overload week. I am glad your mother hadn't broken anything.

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  4. The problem with enduring such monstrous stresses (aside from the obvious) is that they act like huge rubber bands that pull you far away from a sense of stability and strength...then !!snap!! and catapult you to the wall on the other side. I recommend wine. Inside, please.

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  5. Yes, week from hell, indeed. So happy to hear there is no broken bone with your mom. About hospitals - we had to file a formal complaint with the Dir of Nursing and the Dir of Case Management about issues that were of serious consequence during one of my father's hospitalizations. I am always so aware of the vulnerability patients who do not have family to watch out for them face at every turn. Remember when we were kids and family members could actually be left in the care of hospital staff overnight without great worry? NO MORE!

    Sometimes we just have to turn the news off. It becomes more than I can handle, too.

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  6. glad your mom is better!

    and wow, coyotes.

    but yeah, week from hell... the texas explosion should have been the big news. it was really big and horrible.

    we have some of our own stuff going on with a family member, so i know how that can pull.

    xoxo

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  7. I'm glad to hear that your mom is feeling better and will be home soon. Hospitals are not a good place to be if you can help it. That's very cool about the coyotes. We always had a pack around our farm. There is a pack near the old NS house too - I often hear them howling and yipping when I'm out photographing moths at night. Sometimes a little eerie but also rather neat.

    Yeah, this was quite the week for all the reasons you mentioned. I was already stressed from so much driving to get here. Shortly after my arrival, my mom's dog became very ill and had to be hospitalized. Everyone's nerves were jangled by the time the dog was out of the woods. The tv news has be absolutely horrendous. I try to avoid watching. The whole thing just makes me sick and fed up with society in general - bad enough that this stuff happens, but then it's like a shark fest feeding frenzy for the media. I have a feeling that I'm not alone with that thought. *sigh* I'm about ready to go hide at the old house for awhile. yup.

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  8. ah yes, the tipping point. so glad that nothing was broken with mom, but soft tissue damage can be very painful as well. Hope they manage her pain with the APPROPRIATE meds.

    Yeah, all this shit going down. What a week. I have been sitting meditation more this week than usual -- no wonder.

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  9. Once when I was out running in the pre-dawn hours, two coyotes crossed my path. They weren't interested in me, but if there had been more, I wonder if they would have had different thoughts.

    Sorry about your tough week.

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  10. Dang, the news was hard enough to get through with nerves intact but to have your mother's accident on top of that, cheesh.
    Throw in some lions, bears and a coyote pack and I think more than an glass of wine is called for.
    That poor feral cat I am sure is even more stressed.
    The great part of the post was that your Mom is OK. Hang on to that.

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  11. Sorry to hear about your mother. We certainly had our share of that for a while.

    I wonder about the coyotes. We have them around here, but I have seen only one, and then only one time. And he ran as soon as he saw me. They are usually wary of humans, but I don't know about a pack. Of course the worst thing you can do is seem afraid of them. I suspect they would retreat if you were aggressive towards them, but I can understand how you might not want to do that. But don't run away, ever.

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  12. Robin Andrea: I'm glad that your mom is OK; I can picture that scenario perfectly.

    Our coyotes never approach humans here; they run in the opposite direction. I suppose that if you were trailing a tiny dog (or walking with a very young child) the coyotes might approach. I'd be much more concerned about the puma myself.

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  13. After reading your post I went outside and sat in the garden. The sky is clear blue, the sun warm. Rosemary, lemon blossoms, and sweet roses are wafting throughout. Koi are swimming and jumping in the pond. I brought you here for some peace and care.

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  14. There are so many things about which to be totally irate, aren't there? Glad your mother has no broken bones. I hope your letter does some good.

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  15. I'm glad your mother is okay, but what a horrible experience. And yeah, I hope we have some boring, peaceful weeks ahead.

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  16. MOUNTAINS of shit happens. You have your heart in the centre and your finger on the pulse. Keep them there. Love love love to all of you. the OZ connection.

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  17. Good gracious! What a stressful time! I'm glad your mom was just bruised. That's bad enough, but what a horrible time she had in the E.R. How cool! More photo opportunities for you:) Stay safe!

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  18. Don't we all just want to scream. I'm glad that your mom is OK.

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  19. That was a week of overwhelm for me, too. So good to know that your mother is okay.

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