Sunday, February 17, 2013

Road Trip Retrospective

We drove a thousand miles in four days. We're not as young as we once were, when racking up those kind of miles was easy. By the time we got home on Saturday, we were bone-tired exhausted. It's a good thing we absolutely love these miles and that California is as beautiful as ever in the late winter early spring.

Our timing could not have been better for the trip. We had been watching the weather forecasts and waiting for mild temps and clear skies. When we got to Capitola, it was 70 degrees and the tide was low. We headed out for a walk along the shoreline that is only accessible during very low tides. It's our favorite fossil walk. On this day we saw fossils we hadn't seen before and this wonderful little bouncy Spotted Sandpiper.

We spent the first night in Capitola and then headed out in the morning, 350 miles south to Thousand Oaks. We have favorite spots along this familiar journey. We love to stop at the rest area just north of Paso Robles. It's there we know we're going to see the Yellow-billed Magpie. They have a very narrow range in California, and they exist nowhere else in the world. They are a reliable sight at this particular rest-stop, so, we sip our tea and munch on toast, while we watch them.

The road south hugs the coast for a while and then heads a bit inland running parallel to the Los Padres National Forest. I'm always hoping I'll catch a glimpse of a condor on one of these trips, but it hasn't happened yet. That doesn't stop me from shouting "condor" every time I see a turkey vulture, which if you know California skies is all the time! The hillsides are a dazzling yellow these days, covered in blooming mustard. Even the median strips have the first lupines of the season. We love these rocky peaks in the mountains just north of Santa Barbara. There are nearly two million acres of national forest just east of the highway, and more than 80% of it is public lands. It is thrilling to know how far the wildness spreads out from here.

The purpose of the journey was to spend two days with my mom. She has been living in the assisted-living facility since July, and in many ways it has enriched her life. She's in a reading group. She plays Mah Jongg. She has made new friends and never eats alone anymore. All good, all good. My mother is a remarkable 87-year old. She has incredible presence. She is engaged with the world. She reads a newspaper everyday and never turns the TV on. She is an amazing role model, and I feel lucky. We are glad to have made the trip, even if it did kick our aging butts!

13 comments:

  1. A win-win all the way! I know that you love that your mom is happy there. Jim's mom resisted going to the last minute and within 3 weeks, she was the belle of the ball.

    I know how travel can kick your butts; we couldn't do that anymore!

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  2. Just sent your post to a friend who is just putting HIS 87-year-old mother into assisted living; hope it works out as well for her. Thanks for sharing positive stories!

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  3. thank you for sharing your journeys, your beautiful photos, and your incredible spirits.

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  4. Sounds like a beautiful trip in spite of the wear and tear. I'm glad that your mother is enjoying life at the assisted living place. For many, the sense of community might be just what is needed, especially in these times. Glad you're home again. Yes, long road trips do get a bit old after awhile.

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  5. I envy you waking up in Capitola -- twice! Beautiful pictures from the shore (makes me want to be there, instantly! -- somebody teleport me now!

    That magpie is a beaut. I didn't know this about this rest stop -- I love the idea of you drinking your tea and eating toast there. Sounds wonderful. Glad you're home safe and sound.

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  6. Yes! California is as beautiful as ever. Thank you for this glimpse of February. This year I was almost in California on Martin Luther King weekend, but the fog up here disrupted all the flights to California, and I had to postpone my trip.

    My father thoroughly enjoyed his assisted living apartments and the people he met there. Great to know that your mom is doing well!

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  7. I keep forgetting how LONG California is. One thousand miles round trip and you never left the state.
    I love that your Mom has adjusted so well to assisted living. Attitude makes all the difference. My mom hated it but she didn't participate.

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  8. Good to hear from you again, and to share your beautiful pictures. I was looking at Common Ravens in my Sibley's last week, and noticed the Magpies on the facing page. I hadn't given Magpies much thought, but read the descriptions and saw the illustrations of the Yellow-billed, which I've never seen. I'm jealous; it would be a life-lister for me!

    Kali's mom (at 88) went into an assisted care facility about 10 months ago, but she had to go--she couldn't function on her own any longer. She has continued to deteriorate and I suspect she doesn't have much time left.

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  9. It's great that your mother is enjoying assisted living. My brother and sister in law thought my mother would get something from the activities and socializing, but by the time she entered, all she really wanted to do was stay in her apartment. She stayed a little under five months before she had a health crisis and has since moved back home.

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  10. This post almost made me miss California... Almost!!
    Your mom sounds like quite an amazing person, which comes as no surprise. How lucky you are to have her in your life.

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  11. It sounds like your mom is in a great place. Mah Jongg? That is so cool!

    As for being wrung out by your 1000 mile trip, I couldn't do that when I was in my 40s. You are tough tough tough!

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  12. How wonderful that your mother has adapted so well. She is definitely a role model.

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  13. oh, how lovely! it would have been a shorter but much less wonderful trip on i-5. so glad you went the coastal way, with stops at your beloved capitola and elsewhere.

    glad mom is doing well!

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